Confidence is the key to success and is not something that can be developed overnight. It’s what gives us self-belief and faith to take on challenges. Without it, even the brightest of children can be held back from reaching their full potential. It’s normal for them to feel shy and a little apprehensive about trying new things. It’s human nature and will come from the work that you put in as a parent to make them feel loved and secure. It also stems from their past experiences. They give children reassurance and proof that they are capable of what they put their minds to. Here are some tips that were shared by a school pastoral team on building confidence in children. Here’s how to raise a confident child.
Praise
The way that you’re spoken to and treated by others can have a real effect on your confidence. This is especially so for children. At a young age, they are impressionable and internalise the things that they hear. If that’s always negative and critical, they can develop a poor self-image. This might result in a future struggle with their confidence. Praise on the other hand is uplifting. It can help children to recognise their strengths and act as a source of confidence.
Look for Opportunities to Socialise
Anxiety often stems from uncertainty and fear of the unknown. If you want to help your child be more social and confident, you may want to look for opportunities where they can talk to others and work on these particular skills. That could be playdates with other children, visits to see friends and family or volunteer work. While it may be a little scary at first, they will get used to being around others and be able to build on their communication skills.
Be an Opportunist
Sometimes it’s about how you look at things. If you’re a glass-half-full kind of person, you’re more likely to see the brighter side of things, put yourself forward and take on challenges. This attitude is something that you can instil and work on with your child by setting a good example, looking for the positives in situations and taking opportunities in your stride.
Taking Up Opportunities
Confidence is also the result of our past experiences. It gives us self-belief that we can do the things that we put our minds to. There are plenty of instances where you can let your child take the reins and do things for themselves. However, these should be carefully thought about. They should not be dangerous and in line with their development as if they aren’t things that they will struggle with, it may do more harm to their confidence.
Encouragement
You can also help gear them with words of encouragement and give your child confidence by demonstrating that you believe in them and their ability. This should be genuine as false confidence can do more harm than good and instead lead to them not trusting you.
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